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A SCARY LESSON
A few years ago I was teaching a large group of elementary kids from the book of Joshua. I taught how God brought his people through the Jordan River and toppled the walls of Jericho. From there, the curriculum I was using skipped a chapter—the story of Achan.
Achan was an Israelite soldier. He spurned a direct command from God by taking some of the plunder of Jericho for himself. His sin was uncovered when God caused the Israelites to be routed in a subsequent battle. To reveal whose sin was responsible, God used a dread-filled process of picking first the tribe, then the clan, then the family at fault. The members of the guilty family came forward one by one, and God picked Achan. So the people stoned Achan, along with his wife, children, and livestock. Then they set them on fire and heaped stones on their charred bodies. Only after that did God turn from his anger.
Well now, it’s easy to see why that story gets skipped.
What should I do? I don’t like picking through the Bible for just the cheery parts, but my group of kids was fairly young. I was worried that the lesson might be too scary. I finally decided I could teach about Achan—if I made sure that the good news of Jesus was my theme.
One of my helpers that day was also the mom of a student. Just before class she asked what the lesson was, and when I told her she became worried. Her daughter got nightmares, she explained. Tense stories often brought them on. I got a sick feeling. Surely I’d been stupid to think I could teach such a lesson to little kids. But there was no time to change it, so I taught about Achan. Dead soldiers. Selection process. Stoning. Fire. The whole ugly scene.
As I taught this, the concerned mom looked even more worried. So did some of the kids, who were particularly bothered that the other soldiers, family members, and animals got killed too. What had they done to deserve that? It was a good question, so I had the whole group gather around me as I sat on the floor with them.
“Yes, many were killed,” I told them, “but that’s what we should learn from this.” I read to them the Bible’s own commentary on the incident: “Didn’t the LORD’s anger come on the whole community of Israel? And Achan wasn’t the only one who died because of his sin” (Joshua 22:20, NIrV).
“You see,” I said, “just one man sinned, but many died. That’s the lesson.”
The kids gave me confused looks. It wasn’t the sort of lesson anyone was expecting. I had their attention and pressed on.
“What if you sin? Or I sin? Does God punish us like he did Achan? Does anyone else get punished too? Or has God made a way to punish sin that has a better ending than this story has?”
The kids weren’t sure. Several knew that God wouldn’t be holy if he didn’t punish sin. They also knew that God forgives. They weren’t certain how it all fit together.
“The idea that a person might die for someone else’s sin is very important,” I said. “In our story, one man sinned but many died. But what if later in the Bible we found one man—just one man—who never sinned in his whole life, but still got punished? If that man never sinned but still died, then many could live.”
They knew I was talking about Jesus.
I went on to tell how Jesus lived the sin-free life each of us don’t. I told how out of all the tribes and clans and families of the world, only Jesus is not guilty—so God picked him. To die. To take our place. God selected Jesus to take the punishment we deserve so we don’t have to stand sinful and quaking, waiting for judgment like Achan did.
“Your sin is very bad,” I told the kids. “It can hurt many people. But God loves you so much that he sent his Son, Jesus, to become a man and die for your sin. Jesus was hurt most of all.
“I wasn’t sure I should tell you this story because I thought it might be too scary. It’s about the scariest thing ever—getting punished by God. But when you know the whole story, it isn’t scary. If you belong to Jesus, he took your punishment and God becomes your Father. So I hope you won’t be scared. You don’t have to be scared of anything. Jesus makes the scariest thing of all go away.”
I knew I’d done okay once it was over because the worried mom thanked me. She loved the story. The real surprise, though, came a few weeks later. The mom came up to me with a huge grin and told me her daughter’s nightmares had stopped. The girl insisted it was because she knew that, due to Jesus, she didn’t have to be scared anymore.
Well, that’s the kind of result a teacher very rarely hears of, and my first reaction was skepticism. Could a little lesson about Jesus really cure such a problem? The nightmares would probably come back in time. But months went by and the mom remained delighted.
I finally came to see that I was the one who lacked faith in the power of the good news. In spite of teaching it, I never expected it to work so wonderfully. It was all due to Jesus, of course, who lived the story I had the privilege of repeating. There’s no story like it. I should have expected such results.
When the account of Achan is taught at all, it’s usually with the moral point that stealing is wrong. Okay, but that girl needed to hear the larger biblical point: that sin destroys life with God. Then she needed the biggest point of all—the theme of the whole Bible: that wherever sin destroys, Jesus heals.
That girl learned about Jesus and believed. She also discovered that belief in Jesus is life-changing, that he truly is better than anything else.
- Wrangler quality: COURAGE
- Bible Story: David & Goliath
- Passage: 1 Samuel 17
- God has won the victory for us!
- Click HERE for a Alistair Begg's sermon "You Cannot Be Serious." It serves as a great reminder of the big idea of David & Goliath.
Tuesday:
- Wrangler quality: COMPASSION
- Bible Story: The Good Samaritan
- Passage: Luke 10:25-37
- God loves us so we should love others!
- While Jesus's command says "'Love your enemy.' Jesus' story says 'Your enemy loved you.'"
- “The larger context—the rest of Luke and the entire Bible—tells us that ‘while we were enemies we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son’ (Romans 5:10). Jesus loved us with an even more sacrificial love than the Samaritan. He not only risked his life but gave it.” from Show Them Jesus
- Wrangler quality: COOPERATION
- Bible Story: Nehemiah & Rebuilding Wall
- Passage: Nehemiah 4:7-21
- God has a great plan to protect His people!
Thursday:
- Wrangler Quality: CHARACTER
- Bible Story: The Story of Achan
- Passage: Joshua 7
- Psalm 86:5-6, 11
- We cannot hide our sin from God!
- Joshua 22:20
- One Sinned & Many Died
- One died & Many were Saved
- HERE is another post about Achan
- Wrangler Quality: CONFIDENCE
- Bible Story: Abraham Sacrifices Isaac
- Passage: Genesis 22:1-14
- God is a faithful God and we need to trust Him!
32 “Fear not, little flock, for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom.
33 Sell your possessions, and give to the needy. Provide yourselves with moneybags that do not grow old, with a treasure in the heavens that does not fail, where no thief approaches and no moth destroys.
34 For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.Remember:
Judah worshiped idols and false gods.
Second Kings 18:4 says they were worshiping "the bronze serpent that Moses had made."2 Kings 18:28-35
The Assyrians threaten Judah.
The Assyrians defy God.
"Who among all the gods of the lands have delivered their lands out of my hand, that the Lord should deliver Jerusalem out of my hand?’” 2 Kings 18:352 Kings 19:32-34
God wins!!
Changes to this Child/Teen Policy are made through the pastors and deacons, not constitution amendments. These changes will be communicated through the church website, bulletin announcements and other means. The policy by which changes were made was not clearly stated in the previous document and the nature of ministry requires leadership to make changes that best reflect changing ministry programs and facilities.II.A.2. Every staff member (paid or non-paid) who works with minor children or teens will have a background check every five years.
In the past, there was only an initial background check done on an applicant with yearly ministry affirmation forms. These yearly ministry checks will continue to happen with every fifth year's check including a formal background check. This change is meant to reflect the recommendation of other ministries and legal recommendations.III.A.1.B. & III.A.2.A. Individuals may be asked to show their pick up receipt when entering or in the children’s ministry area.
Any adult in the EKIDZ area MAY BE ASKED by a safety team member or EKIDZ worker to show their child 's pick up receipt. Adults WILL NEED TO show their child pick up receipt to pick up their child from the classroom.III.A.2.B. Changes to restroom practices to reflect changes in the building.
There were several policies modified to reflect the current EKIDZ wing. These policies in the previous document were written with the previous building layout in mind.Standard Policy: Membership is required for Bible-teaching ministry at EBC. Issue 1. Special Exemption for non-Bible teaching ministries Non-members may serve in specific ministries such as UPWARD, Sonshine and other such ministries under the leadership of authorized Emmanuel members when the following conditions are met: 1. An APPLICATION FOR PAID/NON-PAID MINISTRY has been received and the applicant has been approved for ministry. 2. Background and Reference Checks for those who are not church members serving in non-Bible teaching roles need to be completed. Note: Service is limited to one year in the chosen ministry. Individuals may reapply for ministry in subsequent years.
The biggest change in this section is the addition of UPWARD to the wording. UPWARD states it is "a community-based kids sports program most frequently hosted by a church. Children and volunteers of any faith - or no faith - participate in Upward Sports." At Emmanuel Baptist Church we make it a point to let everyone know that we do UPWARD as a ministry of our church for the glory of God. All adult volunteers go through an application process and when they don't have a church home we make an effort to partner them with an Emmanuel Baptist Church member or make other accommodations. This section has always included SONSHINE to allow non-members to serve during our carnival and/or Bible school in specific, non-Bible teaching roles that are determined by the SONSHINE leadership team. These include but are not limited to roles like puppets, snack helpers and technology personnel.
12 The night is far gone; the day is at hand. So then let us cast off the works of darkness and put on the armor of light. 13 Let us walk properly as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and sensuality, not in quarreling and jealousy. 14 But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.The sermon doesn't focus on verse 13 but it is part of the message.
Earlier this week, Josiah is reading the book Shaken by Tim Tebow. It is book about going through challenging times. The book contains stories of many different people's struggles in life. As Josiah was reading he came across the word "molested" and asked me what that means. Josiah and I have already talked about fundamental character qualities and facts about puberty.
We talk about God's special design for sex between and husband and wife, not a mom and dad OR a man and woman. What happened in the story from the book is that someone took this very special thing and corrupted it and used it in a way that was wrong and sinful.Story Two:
This morning Josiah and I went to The Daughter Project breakfast fundraiser. On the way there we talked about what sex trafficking was. Once again, we had already talked about sex at an appropriate level for him. So my conversation about the Daughter Project and sex trafficking was basically this:
Sex trafficking is when sinful people take what God has designed as a special thing between a husband and wife and twist it and use it for profit.If you haven't had the talk with your son or daughter yet, I would encourage you to check out the resources that have been posted on this blog related to The Talk. Click HERE.
